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Finding Yourself In Midlife
  • How to Navigate Religious Deconstruction and Come Out Stronger blog post title with picture of a church stained glass window
    Deconstruction

    How to Navigate Religious Deconstruction and Come Out Stronger

    Bykathyseppamaki August 2, 2026August 1, 2026

    Have you ever had questions about your religion that you just couldn’t shake? And it seemed like no one would give you the answers you were searching for? Maybe you’ve been quietly struggling with doubts for years. No matter what your experience or what brought you here, let me say this…religious deconstruction is real, it’s…

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  • Things That Heal Me More Than Productivity blog post title with picture of a woman laying on her back on a blanket on the grass covered ground. She has an open book laying on her chest and her eyes are closed.
    AuDHD | Self-Care

    Things That Heal Me More Than Productivity

    Bykathyseppamaki July 26, 2026July 28, 2026

    I spent most of my life believing I was broken. Not in a dramatic way. Just in the quiet, daily way, where you look at everyone else and wonder why the things that come easily for them feel like climbing a wall in wet socks for you. I’m 56 now. Post-menopausal. Autistic and ADHD…what they…

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  • Homemade Chicken Salad blog post title with picture of a white bowl filled with chicken salad on top of a bed of lettice. The bowl is sitting on a blue tabletop
    Main Dish | Salads

    Homemade Chicken Salad

    Bykathyseppamaki July 19, 2026October 12, 2026

    It’s summertime here in South Carolina, and that means temperatures in the mid to upper 90s and lots of humidity. Now, I will be the first to admit that I don’t do well in the heat. Having to spend time outside when it’s near triple digits quickly throws my brain into sensory overload! When it’s…

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    AuDHD

    You Can Thrive With ADHD and Autism

    Bykathyseppamaki July 12, 2026June 13, 2026

    Too many people focus on the challenges that accompany ADHD and autism that they may not believe that they can actually thrive with a neurodivergent brain. But they can! Imagine your brain is like a browser with 47 tabs open…all playing music at once. That’s what it can feel like to have both ADHD and…

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    Women's Issues

    8 Ways Women Apologize Too Much

    Bykathyseppamaki July 5, 2026June 13, 2026

    Ladies, we need to talk for a moment. I have a little not-so-tough love for you today. Because there are far too many of us who spend our lives apologizing for things that we have no reason to even apologize for. Now, I know that there are so many of us who have been quietly…

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  • Simple Greek salad blog post title with picture of a dark bowl filled with Greek salad sitting on a table.
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    Simple Greek Salad

    Bykathyseppamaki June 28, 2026October 12, 2026

    Let me be honest…I’m not the biggest salad lover in the world. On occasion, I do enjoy one. And I definitely prefer them during the hottest time of the year, because they are cooling to the body to eat. But there is one salad I will eat any time of year…and that’s a Greek salad….

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  • Why Losing Weight Feels So Much Harder When You're Neurodivergent blog post title with picture of a woman sitting on the floor with her knees up. She's hugging her knees and her head is down, clearly upset. In front of her on the floor is a scale and measuring tape.
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    Why Losing Weight Feels So Much Harder When You’re Neurodivergent

    Bykathyseppamaki June 21, 2026June 13, 2026

    How many times have you heard  “eat less, move more” for losing weight? To most people, that probably seems like it would be pretty simple.  But if you are part of the neurodivergent crowd, you already know that “simple” doesn’t always mean “easy.” So this post is for you. Let’s be real for a second….

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  • I'm In Midlife and I'm Finally Letting Myself Be a Little Childlike Again blog post title with picture of a woman blowing bubbles
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    I’m in Midlife…and I’m Finally Letting Myself Be a Little Childlike Again

    Bykathyseppamaki June 14, 2026June 13, 2026

    There’s something nobody tells you about growing up…at some point, you stop blowing bubbles. You stop picking up cool-looking rocks. You stop making silly sound effects when you’re driving too fast down a hill. When you “grow up,” life gets far too serious, and somewhere along the way, you let the serious stuff push out…

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    Sparkling Lemonade

    Bykathyseppamaki June 7, 2026October 12, 2026

    I have always been hot-natured. So when the summertime rolls around, I love something cold to drink. Now, I will admit that when I was younger, I drank a lot of diet soft drinks. I’ve always liked the fizz…especially during the months when it’s hot outside. But at some point, I realized I really needed…

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Hi, I'm Kathy!

I discovered I'm autistic and ADHD (AuDHD) in midlife-right in the thick of menopause and a full-on identity unraveling. Now, I'm on a journey to unmask, heal, and rediscover who I really am. This blog is where I share the messy, magical path of being neurodivergent in midlife and finally coming home to myself.

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