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Finding Yourself In Midlife
  • How Limerence and Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria Impacted My Dating Life blog post title
    My Journey | Relationships

    How Limerence and Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria Impacted My Dating Life

    Bykathyseppamaki May 31, 2026June 11, 2026

    For most of my teen and even adult life, dating was confusing, intense, and emotionally exhausting in ways I couldn’t really explain. I didn’t understand why I could feel so deeply connected to someone so quickly, or why a delayed text or a change in tone could send me spiraling into shame, anxiety, and self-blame….

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  • Why Natural Cleaning Might Be a Game-Changer If You're Neurodivergent blog post title
    Life and Home

    Why Natural Cleaning Might Be a Game-Changer If You’re Neurodivergent

    Bykathyseppamaki May 24, 2026June 11, 2026

    As someone with AuDHD, cleaning using conventional chemical-based cleaners has always been a bit of an issue for me. I struggle with the chemical smells of so many of those cleaners. And I’m not alone! But I’ve found that switching to more naturally based cleaners has helped me a lot! And I think that switching…

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  • Chicken Taco Bowl blog post title with a picture of a white chicken taco bowl sitting on a dark rustic table.
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    Chicken Taco Bowl

    Bykathyseppamaki May 17, 2026October 12, 2026

    I just have to be honest for a minute. There are plenty of times when I come home after working, and my energy is completely gone. Sadly, that happens more than I would like it to! Of course, when my energy is low, I still need to eat. So I love to have simple and…

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  • Riding the Waves of Creativity: Understanding the AuDHD Creative Cycle blog post with a picture of a graphic designer working on a project
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    Riding the Waves of Creativity: Understanding the AuDHD Creative Cycle

    Bykathyseppamaki May 14, 2026June 12, 2026

    Since I discovered my own neurodivergence, I’ve also noticed that there is a strong connection between the neurodivergent brain and creativity. I’m very creative myself and have been active in the arts for most of my life. And so, I spend a lot of time with other creative people. And I’ve noticed a very specific…

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  • 10 Signs You Are Giving Away Your Power Blog post title with picture of a woman sitting on the floor holding her knees up to her chest with her arms around her legs
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    10 Signs You Are Giving Away Your Power

    Bykathyseppamaki May 10, 2026June 12, 2026

    There is a lot of talk online about “taking back your power”. But what in the heck does that even mean? Your power comes from your ability to make your own choices, and set limits and boundaries with others…and with yourself. It’s about living life on your terms. But it can be easy to give…

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    A Neurodivergent Woman’s Guide to Romanticizing Ordinary Life

    Bykathyseppamaki May 7, 2026June 15, 2026

    I have been seeing this trend online recently about “romanticizing your life.” But what does that even mean? Apparently, it is about finding little bits of joy and magic in mundane everyday moments. For example, you may not think a lot about your morning routine. But by adding little things like soft music, lighting a…

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  • Macaroni and Cheese for One blog post title with a picture of a black bowl of macaroni and cheese sitting on a gray counter
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    Macaroni and Cheese for One

    Bykathyseppamaki May 3, 2026October 14, 2026

    There are some recipes that I love, but I don’t often eat them because it’s just me eating them. Homemade macaroni and cheese is one of them. I mean, have you looked at a recipe for mac and cheese lately? You could feed a small army with some of those recipes. But it just isn’t…

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  • Deconstructing Christianity: How I Found My Own Sacred Path blog post title with picture of some church pews
    Deconstruction | My Journey

    Deconstructing Christianity: How I Found My Own Sacred Path

    Bykathyseppamaki April 30, 2026May 3, 2026

    Faith and spirituality are deeply personal experiences for every person. When I began deconstructing from organized religion in 2014, it was truly one of the most difficult things I have ever done. And while the journey has been challenging, it has brought so many blessings that I could never have imagined. Here’s my story… I…

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  • Finding Your Joy When the World Feels Heavy blog post title
    Self-Care | Self-Love

    Finding Your Joy When the World Feels Heavy

    Bykathyseppamaki April 26, 2026June 16, 2026

    I find that the world is a pretty challenging place, especially now. And that has me questioning how I can find your joy in my life even though the world is in chaos. Do you ever question this too? Well, If you’re not sure what to do, then stick around! Let’s be honest. A lot…

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Hi, I'm Kathy!

I discovered I'm autistic and ADHD (AuDHD) in midlife-right in the thick of menopause and a full-on identity unraveling. Now, I'm on a journey to unmask, heal, and rediscover who I really am. This blog is where I share the messy, magical path of being neurodivergent in midlife and finally coming home to myself.

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